I do not think we should categories individuals in such extremes: good vs bad, with us vs against us. Life is all grey, various shades of grey and until we start innately without thinking believe the greyness of it we are going to continue struggling with the paranoia of "are you on my side or not," "do you love me or not."

I think it is time to think differently of the world and the individuals in it.

few are on each side and most people are in between. for example someone can be good/bad for you but no necessary the same for for others.