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tip what can you do if you miss your lover and you can't see ( her or him) ?
 
 

Posted by zingo on 06.09.2008
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Posted by alma on 09.09.2008
 

i don't know if i would call every day. There is then a dependency on that and an expectation that if it is not fullfilled or if the calling frequecy becomes less then there is something wrong.

i generally am not bound by a daily routin. But i do not particularly like phones to begin with.

i want to add that a certain level of longing is sweet, sexy, and makes one excited to see her lover. But a level of missing where one feels unable to do much or enjoy life because she is away from her lover is a sign that there is something not working well in the relationship.

Said the mistress of relationships!

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Posted by zingo on 09.09.2008
 

@razano how can your mind stop thinking about him

 

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Posted by razano on 08.09.2008
 

Missing a lover is definitely a tough one! What I do is try to call once a day not matter how brief the call is. Also I get my self busy with work or social activities as not to miss them too much!

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Posted by alma on 06.09.2008
 

Ah, missing a lover!

Well, when i miss a lover i do things that remind me of him. For example, we had talked once about a Vonnegut, a brilliant writer, and since then i have read four of his books, the books make me feel closer to my lover and sometimes i even read passages aloud. Even though he is not physically close to me, i still feel that we are sharing details of daily life, such as reading a book, i can then talk or write to him about it.

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